Monday, January 24, 2011

YouKnowIGotSoul Interview With Josh Xantus



If you're an up and coming artist and you happen to catch the ear of the legendary Stevie Wonder and he gives you a mandate on which direction to take your music, you listen. That's the fortunate position that Josh Xantus found himself in and not only did he heed the advice of his idol, he took it to heart. By just speaking with Josh, I came away with the impression he's very poised and focused to carry on that legacy and gives a bright outlook for the future of r&b music. Clearly, Josh is someone who deserves our attention. In this interview, we discuss that epic meeting with Stevie Wonder, what to expect on his debut album "Can I Live?", his background in classical music, the importance of real r&b music, and a lot more.




YKIGS: I just want to start talking about when you were growing, you played the piano growing up and you learned it at an early age and you were playing classical music and eventually you attended Julliard for classical music. What do you think you learned from going to that school and your background in classical music that has helped with the current style of music & r&b?

Josh Xantus: Just feeling. I think I got from the classical world basically feeling because it’s all about feeling, it’s about how you accent on certain notes or certain sections of the piece when you’re playing the classic piece. It could be soft, it could be loud, it could be medium, and certain words, to be able to play that word and sing it at the same time, I think that’s what made it easier for me.

YKIGS: One thing that stood out a lot on your bio was the experience you had with Stevie Wonder, because I’m a huge fan of him, and the compliments he gave you were big. What did it mean to you hearing what he had to say about your music?

JX: Oh man it was mind blowing, I mean Stevie Wonder, where do you go from there? Just being a Stevie Wonder fan, especially coming from a man who sings and plays, it was awesome. It was truly an achievement for me in my career, and I’m just blessed, I’m just humbled and blessed to have that type of person of status give me those words.

YKIGS: What eventually made you want to abandon your classical background and gravitate towards more soul and r&b?

JX: When I was in school I had this little shorty I was talking to and I hit her with this ill Mozart piece and I played the hell out of the record and then when she looked up she was like “What is that? What are you trying to play here?” So I told her “Baby that’s Mozart” and she said “No way, I don’t want to listen to Mozart!” *Laughs*I didn’t understand that kids in junior high school and high school weren’t up on classical music, but I was just happy to have a mother allowed me to learn. So I went back to the drawing board and I learned Brian McKnight “Anytime” and I went back to the same shorty and it was history from there, this was the way I was going to go.

YKIGS: Tell me about how you originally get noticed and how that led to you signing your first record deal?

JX: I was grinding at that point and I started opening up for a lot of acts like Ne-Yo, I was opening up for Tank, Floety, Fabolous, and it was to a point where the buzz started getting out there of being an artist that was coming up. I had a couple of deals on the table, but I really wasn’t feeling the direction that the labels were mentioning, and I just wanted to go independent so I got up with my label M USA Entertainment, which is my current label, and we just did a deal with EMI/Capitol and it’s been history from there. I’m just making music and putting out quality music that we feel that the industry needs.

YKIGS: Once thing that stands out to me about you is you’re a complete package; you got the voice, you can play piano, you can write music. Then when I saw you perform at B.B. King’s and had a chance to meet you, I noticed you had a personality that really shines through and makes you stand out. Tell me about all that.

JX: I appreciate the compliment man. Basically I think personality is important, I think when you’re an artist you’re supposed to have a light shining within you and I think a lot of artists forget about that. I think a lot of artists stay to themselves and they’re not as personable; I just think that’s wack. When you’re doing music and you love what you’re doing, your personality should shine, you should be a personable person. I come from a family where we’re always cracking jokes, I’ve got brothers and sisters, there were five of us in the house and we just always joked. I just think that’s the way to be, I think in life when you show people that, you make other people feel comfortable, other people want to be around you.

YKIGS: Talk to me about the new single you have out “I Don’t Care” which is the collaboration with Ghostface and Styles P. Give me some background and tell me how the collaboration came about.

JX: Basically I had cut this record a while back and Statik Selektah produced it and we were in the studio vibing and I love the record. I literally wrote the record in twenty or thirty minutes, it just came to me. So I was feelin the record, and then my A&R heard it and said “Man, Ghostface would kill this record!” You know Ghostface on the r&b records, he’s always going in, so I thought yea and asked him to get to him. So we sent it over to Ghostface, and he loved the record so he wanted to be a part of it and jumped in and did his verse. Then actually Styles P was in the studio as well and he heard it and wanted to be a part of it as well. So it was dope, everybody really wanted to be a part of it, it wasn’t like I had to force them to jump on the record.

YKIGS: How has the reception been from your fans since its release?

JX: It’s been great, It’s doing really well on radio, it’s doing what it needs to do, we’re spreading the record across the country nicely. We are actually going for adds at the end of the month, we’re going for full rotation, so we’re going for it. Capitol is definitely doing what they need to do, we’re putting in the work so we’re definitely doing things to make it happen.

YKIGS: You’ve had a lot of collaborations with hip hop artists over the past couple of years. How did you develop these relationships to collaborate with these artists?

JX: Basically with Jadakiss, my boy Killa Touch, he DJs for Jada so Jada held me down on the first record “Let’s Ride,” he was definitely supportive and he’s like a big brother to me now, I’m always around him, we’re always cracking jokes together, we’ve developed a real tight relationship. With Busta Rhymes and Red CafĂ© on the remix, DJ Envy definitely he’s a part of the team and he’s a part of the label M USA, he definitely utilized those relationships to get them on the record. Busta Rhymes has been a great friend, I actually have a song with Busta Rhymes on my new album. It’s just like family now.

YKIGS: The track I had mentioned to you when I first met you was the song “Gimme Yours” that you did with AZ, the 2010 version. How did that collaboration come together?

JX: It was a dope thing man. Statik Selektah was in the studio with AZ, he was playing some of my stuff and AZ was like “Yo, can you get him down here?” So basically Statik called me and was like “Yo AZ wants you to jump on this record.” So I came to the studio and AZ was there and we cut the record. I was happy, that’s a classic record and I was just happy and honored that he wanted me to be a part of it.

YKIGS: Yea I was actually going to ask if you were familiar with the original “Doe or Die” album and the original track.

JX: Oh yea, how could I not be, that’s a classic! *Laughs* My older brother was like “Damn man you re-did the classic!” It’s crazy because that album was released on EMI and I’m an EMI artist so it all made sense.

YKIGS: Talk to me about your debut album “Can I Live?” Give me some background on what kind of sound you’re going to have on there, what producers you are working with, and collabos.

JX: Producers on the album is real cool. We’ve got the Refugee Camp which is Wyclef’s situation, we have Little Wonder, Jerry Wonder on the bass playing for “Let’s Ride,” so that’s on there. I have Swizz Beatz on the album, I’ve worked with Swizz in the studio actually for this record and we collaborated on the writing part of it and definitely a dope record called “Movie Star” which is on the album. I have Los Da Mystro who does all of Dream, J. Holiday “Put You To Bed,” bunch of great records. The rest of the album is just me really and certain up and coming producers, just guys that really had a different sound. But for the heavyweights I’ve got Swizz, Los Da Mystro and The Refugee Camp.

YKIGS: When can we expect that to release?

JX: The label is looking for a second quarter release, that’s why we’re pushing this record right now, kinda kicking it into gears and definitely getting it going to the point where we will be able to put a dope album out at the end of the second quarter.

YKIGS: Tell me about the mixtape you released late last year “Josh X-Mas.” It was kinda ballad heavy, is that going to be similar to the sound of the album? Are you going to do a lot of ballads?

JX: Yea I wrote the ballads on the album, definitely wrote the ballads on that, I co-wrote with some people like my home girl Cassandra, we went to school together and she’s a dope writer, she actually sings backup for me. I wrote like 90% of that mixtape. Basically that’s a side of my artistry that you will see on the album because I think that’s dear to me and I think that’s what distinguishes me from other r&b artists. I could do club records, radio records, but there’s a side where I can give you songs when you just want to mellow out with your girl or you want to listen to a real r&b song. So when you listen to “Can I Live,” you’ll find a mixture of those songs and songs like “I Don’t Care” and “Let’s Ride.” It’s a dope album, I’m happy with it and I feel it shows a lot of different music. Nothing on that album is going to sound the same.

YKIGS: There was a line in your bio that stood out to me and that’s where you said “I’m not doing this for cars and clothes. My music is to change people’s lives.” How did you develop that outlook about your music?

JX: I developed that because Stevie Wonder taught me that. Basically I have a song called “Mommy I Love You” that I performed for him and he was touched, he was so touched that he started talking about his mother who passed away. Basically to get you into the story, the name of the album “Can I Live?” is basically about making choices in life and whether or not they’re right or wrong choices, can you live with it? So being an artist and going to college and having a scholarship, I was faced with my mom who had heart disease, who got diagnosed with heart disease, and it was a very challenging time in my life where basically I was trying to figure out if I should stay in school, if I should drop out, if I should get a job to help her out because she wasn’t able to work anymore. Something told me to stick to what I believed in and I stuck to what I believed in and I got a record deal immediately after graduating college. I just want to give people in my position that come from a single parent house and have doubts in themselves to know that it is possible. So when you listen to the album you’ll learn about things and situations that I’ve been through that I’m sharing with the listener and letting them know you don’t always have to take the easy way out. I feel like the message is strong and I want to help people get to places and know that if you believe in yourself then things will happen.

YKIGS: I like that, that’s good stuff.

JX: Appreciate it.

YKIGS: Do you think that maybe some other artists who are out now who are doing music don’t follow that same philosophy? I just wanted to hear your opinion on that.

JX: I think a lot of artists forget that, and this is all coming from Stevie, so I want everybody to know that Stevie asked of me to carry his legacy in making good music and becoming a teacher. As an artist it’s my job, he gave me a mandate and told me it’s my job to educate people, to bring people to a level where they can relate as a story teller. I think people forget as an r&b artist, as a lyricist, as a writer, I think a lot of artists forget, I’m not name calling or anything, but I think a lot of people with the music today, they forget to tell you something. Like what can you get from that music, from that song? Anybody can talk about poppin bottles in the club but where does that take you? Respectfully speaking, it’s a recession; the average person isn’t in the club poppin bottles. The average is going through the loss of a family member or someone who is sick or a breakup with a girl that they love, and I think a lot of artists forget about that. I’m basically going to fill up that void and that gap.

YKIGS: Yea I appreciate that outlook and as long as you keep making music following that philosophy you will always have my support, because that’s real right there.

JX: I appreciate you man and I’m definitely going to continue that and I promised Stevie Wonder that I would continue to be that person, a story teller and keep making music that’s going to change people’s lives.



YKIGS: That’s all of the questions I had for you, is there anything else you’d like to add?

JX: I appreciate you a lot and I just want everybody to know they can find me on my website, the music is real, pay attention, this year is going to be a good year, I feel confident in the music I’m getting ready to put out. I’m just here, check me out on all of my sites, JoshXantus.com, @JoshXantus, Facebook, MySpace, you can talk to me, I’m on there chatting with my fans because if it wasn’t for the fans then I wouldn’t be in this business.

Classic Vibe: H-Town "Part Time Lover" (1994)



Dino, GI, & Shazam, better known as H-Town; came straight out of Houston (hence; their name) but were signed by Miami's own Luther "Luke" Campbell. Even though Jodeci is the most influential R&B group of the 90's, I believe H-Town were part of the very few that shared a spot in Jodeci's limelight. Here is one of their classic songs, from the "Above The Rim" soundtrack; "Part Time Lover." Enjoy!


New Music: Jennifer Hudson "Where You At" (Produced by R. Kelly & Harvey Mason Jr.)











Jennifer Hudson "Where You At"


This is set to be the first single from Jennifer Hudson's upcoming second album "I Remember Me" due in stores March 22nd. The song features production from R. Kelly and Harvey Mason Jr.


New Music: Lil' Mo "One for the Road" (Remix) featuring Barnes











Lil' Mo "One for the Road" (Remix) featuring Barnes


Lil' Mo treated her fans to this song as a gift to inaugurate her 50,000th follower.

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New Video: Bilal "Levels"

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The Sounds of VTech / Bilal Levels



Third single from Bilal's album "Airtight's Revenge." Peep the Erykah Badu cameo in the video.

Lost Soul: Day26 "Girlfriend"





Day26 "Girlfriend"


Here is a Tank produced and written song that I feel would have had some success on the charts if it were released as a single.

Sunday, January 23, 2011

YouKnowIGotSoul Interview With Nicci Gilbert of Brownstone (Part 2 of 2)



I recently had the pleasure to interview Nicci Gilbert; from the group Brownstone, for YouKnowIGotSoul. Nicci is back on the Scene with a new Musical Play, a managing role for an all-girl band by the name of “The Gee Gees,” and new music in the works for all her fans. Please join us in this amazing interview as Nicci discusses how Brownstone got signed by Michael Jackson, inspiration from her mentor Tyler Perry, the future of Brownstone, all her new endeavors, and an "Up Close & Personal" explanation on the origins of some of her greatest hits. Make sure you follow Nicci on Twitter @niccigilbert. To purchase Nicci's new Musical Play "Soul Kittens Cabaret" on DVD, please click here. "Soul Kittens Cabaret" was written and directed by Nicci and it stars Faith Evans and Fantasia. If you are a Nicci Gilbert/Brownstone fan, this is an interview that you don't want to miss. Enjoy!

Click here for Part 1 of the interview.

YKIGS: If you don’t mind, I have a couple of my favorite Brownstone and Nicci Gilbert records, and we would love to hear any memories regarding the studio sessions or stories on what inspired you to sing these songs. We have a couple of song that we would like for you to touch on.


NG: Sure.

YKIGS: The first one I have is Brownstone’s “5 Miles to Empty.”

NG: Yeah, “5 Miles to Empty” I was actually dating the producer of that song and I found out that he was cheating on me. I was literally driving back from his house, you know; we were going to a recording session because we were going to work on some tracks, and do some writing. I found him having a conversation with another girl, anyway; long story short, I left. At the time, my car; you know this is when cars first started to tell you how much gas you had before you ran out. So Maxee was with me, and I just remember getting in the car all upset and everything. I was like, you know “he cheated on me and we are about to ran out of gas on the 405” and she was like “No, we are not gonna ran out of gas, it’ll be fine, don’t worry, don’t cry.” So we wrote a song about it, and we literally, we were like “Oh if I’m gonna write a song about it, I'ma write a song to one of his tracks!” So we pop the track in, after we got our lil’ gas, we drove home and “5 Miles to Empty” ended up being the song that we came up with.

YKIGS: Wow, so that’s a real story, a real song.

NG: Yeah, the real story of a real song and real heartbreak *Laughs*

YKIGS: Those are the best ones though, those are the best material.

NG: Yup.

YKIGS: Ok, this is one my favorite Brownstone records; the cover of The Eagles “I Can’t Tell You Why.”



NG: “I Can’t Tell You Why” oh yeah, that was Jerry Greenberg’s idea. And we actually got the blessing of Don Henley (from The Eagles) to do their song. Tommy Mottola said he wanted me to put on the soulful verse on it. I remember going “I want Maxee to do the song herself.” She did an amazing incredible job and I think Don Henley and the team for The Eagles was very impressed. Jerry made a good call, as usual.

YKIGS: You guys definitely did an amazing job covering that song.


NG: Thank You.

YKIGS: Another one of my favorites, “If You Love Me (Street Vibe Remix) Featuring Craig Mack.”


NG: Ahh that was my idea! *Laughs* I remember it like it was yesterday, I was in the office with Richard Griffiths, who was at Epic; Tommy Mottola, Jerry Greenberg and I was like “Yo, we need to do a remix, we need to do a remix.” At the time, one of our managers backed me up, he was a co-manager with us and he was like “Look, I’m telling you now these girls can kill this and we can get Craig Mack and all these people on it” and we did. Hype Williams directed the video, which was crazy; just one of my favorites. I remember pushing it forward in the board room with the big boys.

YKIGS: That’s definitely when remixes just to be real remixes. Not that “just throw a verse” stuff that they are doing now. They really remixed the track, the lyrics and everything. It’s an amazing record.


NG: Yup.

YKIGS: Since that song was kind of a “Bad Boy remix,” did you guys get to work with Puff on that one?


NG: I don’t remember being in the studio with Puff. I just remember that they all kinda came together and put the track together. I do remember one session where we went in with Puff and tried to creatively come up with some stuff. Actually Puff and Kim were in the studio together, and we went up there, but I don’t recall ever having any real one on one session with Puff.

YKIGS: Ok cool. What are your memories on the record “Grapevine?”


NG: Oh wow “Grapevine,” I just remember listening to over, over, and over again. I remember Dave Hall came up with the track. We were in New York and I remember writing that record in New York City and walking down the street. We were at 55th and 6th, and we used to go down to the grocery store to get all this vegetables and good for you healthy food and I was like “Yo, I wrote this song to the Dave Hall track, ya’ll wanna hear it?” and I remember walking down the street, you know; singing the hook and singing the song and they were like “Oh that’s hot! That’s hot! That’s hot!” so we recorded it and we sent it to Jerry and Michael. They were like “That’s the single!” You know, that’s the story behind “Grapevine.”

YKIGS: Now let’s go into your Solo material. I really like “My Side of the Story.”


NG: Actually, I didn’t like “My Side of the Story” at all when I first heard it. I actually fell out with the head of MCA, I cannot think of his name; because we never saw eye to eye on it. I just remember him saying “we need a single, we need a single.” Then, they told me well Deborah Cox wants this record, and when they said that; he was like “Yo, we are gonna buy it and that’s gonna be the single, and that’s just that” and I remember fighting, like I did not want this as my single, this is not the record that I think would work. Then, all of a sudden; it started to grow on me. And I was like “Oh, ok wait a minute; you might be on to something.” So I learned, you know; that I don’t always know everything. Sometimes you just gotta depend on other people’s professional ear and get it in.

YKIGS: You sound really good on the record. Do you like it now?


NG: My favorite record off the “Grown Folks Music” album is “Stop Messin’ Around.” I like “Think Again.” So I like “My Side of the Story” but there are so many records on that album. I really like “Summer.” When I listen to it, I enjoy it because it tells the story of the place that I was, you know; then. It feels good, like I don’t really listen to Brownstone stuff that much just because; you know, I was young and I wish I could’ve done so many things differently. Vocally, I think I’ve matured a lot. I don’t listen for enjoyment; I listen for criticism of self. The “Grown Folks Music” stuff I actually can listen to for enjoyment because all of the songs tell stories, it kinda takes me back.

YKIGS: The “Grown Folks Music” album is really good from beginning to end.


NG: Thank you.

YNIGS: Last but not least I have one more from that album, “She’ll Never Feat. Dave Hollister”


NG: Ah with Dave! Yes, yes, yes. I love it, we just kinda winged it, you know; we went in a just kinda put it together. At the time, I was really going through some stuff. That’s one of the most heartfelt songs that I’ve written *Pauses* yeah, I can’t even go into it. That song just reminds me of wanting someone to feel me and the love I have in my heart, knowing that the person he was with was just no good, a gold-digger; only interested in money. Now it’s manifested and became a true thing and now the whole world can see.

YKIGS: Wow, Thank you for sharing that with us.


NG: Definitely!

YKIGS: Your answers really give a brand new meaning to all the record that I’ve asked you about. It’s crazy, they are real live stories.


NG: Yeah, I like record that speak to me and that are real, I just try to keep it real and honest.

YKIGS: And you should never stop that, I’m glad you are like that.


NG: Thank you.

YKIGS: You’re welcome. Let’s go back to Brownstone. Is the group still together?


NG: Yeah, we play dates in the Summer. We really we want to become a touring brand; here we go out and tour more often than anything else. You’ll see us more in the Summer time. I am releasing some new music. It’s a little bit of a surprise; we are wrapping the details for that. But there definitely will be music, everybody is working to make some great stuff together; I think the industry is hurting for R&B right now and I’m definitely ready to get some R&B out on the charts for sure.

YKIGS: So the group is definitely going to record a new album together?


NG: Well, yeah. We are working on It now. I’m hoping we can release some more details. I’m working first on a live album, and then we are doing an individual. I’m also producing a new group that’s an all-girl band called “The Gee Gees” and it’s kinda a “Hootie & The Blowfish” type of project. They also sing, so they are incredible. They are like a new Brownstone, a new flavor. I’m very excited.

YKIGS: Are they on Twitter or anywhere that people can start following them?


NG: We are setting all that stuff up. These girls work and them they rehearse, you know; they are just about to get out there. I like the fact that they are really untouched in terms of that. We are recording a single that Stevie J wrote for Jazmine Sullivan, we hope that it hits urban radio hopefully by the beginning of February and we are shooting a video by the end of the month. This is really a project for me to help lunch their careers and I’m just going to be the front person for that project. You are the first to hear about it!

YKIGS: Thank you. We will be on the lookout for that. We will support on the site as well.


NG: Perfect!

YKIGS: What else can we expect from Brownstone and you new endeavors on 2011?


NG: Working on the Brownstone tour. I have two TV shows; one is called “R&B wives” coming very soon. You know, its kinda going for the same sort of franchise as “Basketball Wives” but with no cat fights *Laughs* We just want to share that we are real professional women coming together. This will happen around mother’s day. Also, I’m working on a film, its and Urban Drama in Detroit. It’s my first feature. I also did another film project for Fantasia; we did the Short for her tour. Another Television project called “Curtains” which is a spin off “Soul Kittens Cabaret.” I’m exited!

YKIGS: What kind of sound will you bring for your new recording including Brownstone?


NG: Same great full harmonies, real songs, and singing with a lot of grace and passion like we always do.

YKIGS: Amazing, that’s what the fans want to hear. Well, that’s all I had prepared for today.


NG: It’s been real!! Thank you! I appreciate it!!

YKIGS: Thank you so much for sharing all those memories and stories with us. I know it is very personal stuff but we really appreciate it.


NG: Thank you so much!

YKIGS: Is there anything else that you would like to add?


NG: Just that I’m exited about 2011. Spread love and peace!

YKIGS: We will definitely be on the lookout for all your new projects. You have all the support from the site.


NG: Thank you for taking the time out to interview me. I really appreciate it.

Rare Gem: Lil' Mo "Starstruck" featuring Missy Elliott











Lil' Mo "Starstruck" featuring Missy Elliott


This song was to appear on the original version of Lil' Mo's debut "Based on a True Story," but the version was later scrapped and this didn't make the final version of the album.


Classic Vibe: Lil' Mo "Yeah Yeah Yeah" featuring Miri Ben Ari (2005)



Back in 2005, Lil' Mo had signed a deal with Cash Money Records to release what was to be her third album, "Syndicated (The Lil' Mo Hour)." Eventually the album was shelved, but it did produce this one single.

Saturday, January 22, 2011

YouKnowIGotSoul Interview With Lil' Mo



How many children from as early as they can remember pick out an idealistic job they'd like for the future and not only stick with that dream through the years, but actually ever get to live it out? Lil' Mo, who might be little in stature bet never in personality or vocals, is one who succeeded in achieving her dream she reached for since she was little (no pun intended). After bursting on the scene under with tutelage of Missy Elliott with a slew of major features in the late 90's, Mo is still in the game and now working on her fourth album and currently hosting a very successful radio show in Baltimore. In this interview for YouKnowIGotSoul, we talk to Mo about her relationship with Missy, the industry politics that may have affected her success, her Twitter family, her strong religious beliefs, what to expect on the new album and much more.



YKIGS: I wanted to talk to you first about your music. At the beginning of your music career, I remember having your first album and on the intro you were talking about when you were five and you were singing and everyone was telling you that you were going to be a star. So when did you first realize you wanted a career in music?

Lil’ Mo: I would say when I led my first song in church. It was an overwhelming feeling as far as I can remember since I was young, and I cried the whole song actually. Just the applause that I got for just initially trying, I thought yea I could do this. As time goes on and you grow up you think you wanna be a fireman, or a policeman, or jump out of airplanes. But I believe I was in a talent show or something one time and I would up singing a gospel song, but every time I would sing just the overwhelming round of applause I would get, I was like yea I could do this! I’m going to show off anyway, so I thought might as well be a superstar, it pays the best and you don’t have to go to college! *Laughs*

YKIGS: You were eventually discovered by Missy and signed to her label. How did she discover you and how did you guys first meet?

Lil’ Mo: Well before her there was my uncle who’s a gospel artist, that’s who I initially went on the road with, it would be about 17 years ago to this date. That’s who actually took me under their wing first and then I signed to Elektra, so I was never signed to Missy, she took me on tour first. She actually took me on tour right before I was signed, so she took me under her wing and after that we remained cool. I actually spoke to her this morning and I was just like “Yo, can you believe we are still in the music business and can you believe we are still doing this? And I have three kids now?” Being under her tutelage was a great thing because that doesn’t naturally happen in the industry, people don’t take you under their wing anymore unless you are signed to them. They don’t even want to deal with you because it’s a loyalty thing, they don’t want to spend money, time or energy, or all of the above, and then the person winds up going and trying another situation after you’ve invested so much interest in them; nobody wants to let go of their product. But she’s just always been like my big sister from day one that’s, what I’ve considered her to be, family. Just being around when I first got the call I was like “Man, Missy didn’t tell me to call her!” That’s when beepers were out believe it or not, I was told to call this phone with your cell phone, and I didn’t even one, I had a beeper and I called her from a pay phone. So just to see the evolution of technology, this is like history! *Laughs*

YKIGS: Even before you did your debut album, you were featured on a lot of songs, did a lot of collaborations and you continued to do so all through your career. I was wondering if you had a favorite collaboration that stood out or one that immediately comes to mind that you remember the most?

Lil’ Mo: One that I would say that really comes to mind that stood out as my favorite probably would be “Hot Boyz” because that’s when I really got to reflect my personality, and then “Put It On Me” because I realized I really got to do me on those songs. Those are outside collaborations that they chose me; I didn’t have to choose them. So anytime I got featured on anything that I got the call for, there’s no particular order of which one was the greatest because everything I was featured on wound up doing exceptionally well. Then that’s when I ventured off and started doing my own stuff and I thought wow, this life is really cool. So between anything I’ve been on, I actually love them all because I’ve never repeated myself, I’ve always thought I ascended with everything I did like “Hot Boyz” then “Put It On Me” then “Superwoman” then “4Ever,” everything just kept on climbing and climbing and also the things that were in between. There were things I did with Missy, and people were like “Oh my God you killed it.” The end of “Wifey” by Next, *sings* “Will you be my wifey, yes I’ll be your wifey,” when I did that people thought it was so crazy and it literally took me 15 seconds. I did it because R.L. was like “Yo come here and just do this part, if the label doesn’t clear it, we’ll go ahead and take it off.” So things I did as a joke wind up changing people’s lives so I guess I’m a comedian and a singer all in one!

YKIGS: What do you remember most about recording your debut album “Based on a True Story”?

Lil’ Mo: Wow, what do I remember most…I remember just going in the studio and I just wanted everyone to know that purchased the album by the sound of my voice know that I could really sing. I’m not cocky, I’m not staunch, I’m not stuck up, but I know when I do stuff I do it well. At first I had planned on being a rapper, but then I decided I didn’t want to be a rapper because I just always felt that once your time is up with rapping, rapping doesn’t repeat itself, it kinda goes in cycles. Once a sound is old, people are tired of it. Remember when everybody was rapping mad fast and they were breaking it up, now everybody does the onomotopea style of rapping. So I realized I didn’t feel like keeping up with everybody, and once you pass a certain age, nobody cares. But with singing, that’s timeless, especially growing up in the church as well as doing r&b, and I could do country and western, anything I set my mind to I can do, and with singing I just felt that the first album was the best place to make a standard and platform to show people I could really sing. My main goal was to set out there that I’m a girl from the church, but trust I could rock with the streets, and I think I’ve set that standard. I think that’s why there are so many people that try to make this sound, or even came out and sold more records, but I don’t care because at the end of the day I’ll play them all! And I put that on my mamma! *Laughs*

YKIGS: Someone you’ve collaborated with many times, he was on all of your albums and you were on a bunch of his albums as well is Fabolous. What is your guys working relationship like and how do you guys work so well together?

Lil’ Mo: Well in the past we’ve worked together because I always thought it was a Scorpio thing and the fact that we’ve just been like brother and sister, his birthday is November 18th, mine’s November 19th, so I just felt like it was destiny! I used to be so hyped about chemistry. Over time people change, season’s change, things change, and I’ve enjoyed his collaborations in the past. As for the new album, only those who remain in my circle and who I really genuinely feel can go with me to this next mental, physical, emotional, social and singing level, and the musical level, are going, so there’s some that won’t be around, sorry!

YKIGS: As someone who has an amazing voice and is a very talented singer, through all of your years in the industry, can you touch on the politics and things that have prevented you from the success you felt maybe you deserved?

Lil’ Mo: Well there’s a such thing as when you reach your goals, then you reach higher. You ever heard of the study they did where they put a grasshopper in a box and they put a lid on it and the grasshopper can only jump as high as what they set the limit? So even when they removed the lid, it wouldn’t jump out of the box. See I’ve always been out of the box so there weren’t any limits for me and every time I put out an album I would say I did better and better and better. What I would say is there’s still room for me to sell 10 million records so I don’t want to beat myself at my own game. If you ever noticed, I consider a lot of artists backwards. From the outside looking in if an artist sold 10 million records that might seem like they did great, but I say that means they recouped and now there’s so much more to do. One of the greatest people I’ve ever worked with would be…I call him Hootie of Hootie and the Blowfish, but I did a record with him and we sat down and talked and I said “Yo, you guys sold 33 million records over your careers, that must be really amazing.” He said yea, but the label considered them a flop. So I wondered how he could say that. He told me because when they first came out they sold 10 million, second album sold eight million, then after that five million and two million. So once you’ve reached the top of the height of what they consider your success, and you don’t do it again, that’s when they consider that you lost it, even if you really didn’t. As an artist, going from selling 600,000 singles, to selling 400,000 albums, leading to another 300,000 albums, I felt like I was on a roll. So I have no choice but to reach for that one million, for that mark in a whole, not all collectively. A lot of people add of their numbers together, and would say they sold 10 million, but I’d say “Stop lying, you’re adding your single sales, downloads, mom & pops, and the ones you strictly put on a different barcode.” See I know the secrets of the system I just don’t fall for them because I know a lot comes with that so the success that I’ve actually set out for is just for everybody to know I could sing, so I’ve already reached that. So there isn’t anything else to do except try to please people which I’m not in the business of, I’m in the business of healing people through my lyrics. So I’ve accomplished that.

YKIGS: Now I want to talk to you about your radio show. I was reading that you actually had a radio show back in 2000 and that’s where you got your start in radio. How did that opportunity originally come about?

Lil’ Mo: Well in 2000 up until 2002 I was filling in for Angie Martinez, Funkmaster Flex, I filled in for Steve Harvey at times, a lot of people, and I had filled in one day just as a radio interview. When people went on vacation people didn’t want to leave their show in the hands of just anybody, so I guess they felt I sounded good on radio, so I said I’ll try it. I used to watch “Martin” a lot so I felt if he could do it, and I laughed and everybody else laughed, so I thought why not try it. So I just learned to pull off my comedic side, that’s really my talkative and interpersonal side, how I communicate with others. Then when I was pregnant with my first child, that’s when I had the opportunity to take a break from touring and stuff like that, and there was a new station that was forming in Baltimore, because I had moved from New York and came out here, so I said hey I’ll try it, they didn’t know if I was serious, but I was serious. They gave me a shot, I had a number one show and then after that I had to take a break and then that’s when I did second album “Meet the Girl Next Door” and I had to go and promote. So I had to take a break from radio, but since then people had been asking me “Hey do you want to get back in radio? I got a job for you!” I always knew that once you open that side of the business which a lot of people can’t get into, once I tapped into that I knew I had struck gold because the endorsements and things that come along with it, the people you reach; I’m reaching millions and millions. And now that you can listen on internet, you can’t even keep count of the people that you can reach. So just think those are the people that didn’t know that I sang or were coming back out with an album, now they have no choice but to know me, I’m going to be in your ear some type of way, singing, talking, Twittering, some type of way! So I came back with The Lil’ Mo Show, I thought what better way to reintroduce myself then by spoon feeding people, get used to me again. So sometimes on my show I might sing or you might hear some songs that I’m on or we may throw it back in the day, and now we’re moving up to the part where I’m getting into new music. So I’m really resurfacing, but I’m not taking baby steps, I’m actually…I don’t like pushing myself or forcing myself on people that might not remember, and also the new recycled people that will be like “Who? I thought she was done!” And I say “No baby I’m here and I’m actually in the best shape, the greatest look, and the swaggest of ever!” So this is basically the best of me that you’re getting in 2011.

YKIGS: So now with your radio show, having a family and having kids, how do you remain motivated and have the time to keep doing music as well?

Lil’ Mo: My family keeps me going because the stuff that they ask me just cracks me up, like “Mommy, are you really famous? Can I be famous like you?” Or I’ll go and pick up my kids from school, and when the principal comes out and people just say “Oh we heard you’re famous” and I just sit there looking crazy, dressed down like “Well you know…” because I’m really shy and introverted in person but you would never know that through the radio, through the phone or when I’m on stage, I actually have to turn into a character. So the way I balance it all is I realize that there is a big difference between mommy and Lil’ Mo, but at the same time, my kids think it’s so cool that their mom is Lil’ Mo, it’s the greatest. Anybody that can do it, I put my hat off to you, but you do have to know when to turn that light off and when to be the parent as well as when to be the personality.

YKIGS: The other family I want to ask you about is your Twitter family because I know you’re very active on there and keep a family on there, you’re very interactive with your fans and it’s pretty cool to see. How has that whole experience been and how do you enjoy that part of things?

Lil’ Mo: I really like it, I remember a couple of years back Elektra, when I was signed to them, now they’re closed, but they had us doing interactive stuff when the internet was really poppin. So ten years ago, it just seems like time has really flown. When we were just doing ringtones, we considered that interactivity but now people that grew up or are on or around your music, you could run into people who remember you from elementary school, and I’m thinking “Good Lord I’m not that old! Or at least I don’t look like it!” I’ve always been one to know how to deal with people because I would consider myself a chameleon. With my dad being ex-military, I’ve lived in Texas, I’ve lived in Atlanta, Georgia, North Carolina, I’ve been all around the world and I’ve done all of that at a young age and I’ve learned how to deal with different people. So that’s the reason why I’m interactive so much with Twitter. A lot of people applaud me or commend me for interacting with my fans. But then there are times people say “If you’re supposed to be famous, why do you talk to your fans so much?” And to those people I just say “Oh shut up, you just want somebody to talk to!” So I give everybody a fair chance to say what they’ve got to say. I’m really to the point now, because I used to give people so much time, I’m a professional speed typer so a lot of people think I Tweet all day and really I’m not Tweeting all day, I just type fast so it seems like I’m on here all day. Then there are just some times that I’m just chillin, or I’ll be in the booth Tweeting and singing and nobody will realize, and my husband will be like “Can you please put your phone down, I can hear you texting while you’re singing!” I can multi-task, so why not take all that energy whether good or bad and translate it into passion through a song? Sometimes while I’m at the grocery store paying for something I’m here Tweeting, and they’ll be like “Oh that’ll be $99.99.” A lot of people don’t know half the time when I’m doing stuff, you can put like a Big Brother satellite over my life and you’ll see I’m not just sitting there in bed eating Bon Bons Tweeting! I’m really actually doing things or being interactive, but I think that’s what keeps me young, that’s what keeps me focused and that’s what keeps me in the know of the new lingo that’s out that’s going on. Because one thing you don’t want to be is behind the times, a lot of these artists are afraid of people finding out who they really are, but I’m an open book. That’s the real reason why nobody wants to mess with me because here I am, hear me roar! I love it, it’s fun to me.

YKIGS: Yea, it’s real cool that you take the time like that to interact.

YKIGS: The next question is from one of the readers of my site, she’s a big fan of yours. She wants to know in this crazy industry with so much stuff that could get you off course, how do you keep your life dedicated to religion like you do?

Lil’ Mo: Well both of my parents are preachers; my Dad’s a Bishop believe it or not. We’re kind of like the radicals, I’m a hip hop and r&b fan, it’s like wow I really broke the mold. But when you realize that your relationship with God is the only one that you need to be concerned about, nobody else has anything to do with that, you just kinda get over everything. My mom is an Evangelist and she’s a school teacher so with that our interactivity in dealing with people and things that she’s taught me along the way, just the way they deal with their saints in the church, the way she deals with the people at school and the parents, that’s what keeps me grounded and keeps be humble. If I really wanted to I could really shut my life out from everybody but that’s boring. When you become a product of that environment, that’s the reason why a lot of people are doing really bad drugs or really losing their mind or are really suicidal. Just look at half of the celebrities that really don’t interact, you will lose your mind, they are lonely! That’s why keeps me grounded in my religion because I just feel like who wants to live holed up in their house, who wants it to get to that point, I would never want it to be that way. These couples that are here now, I would say Jay-Z and Beyonce, President Obama and his wife, they aren’t even stuck in the house, who does that? They are behind their security and stuff, but they just live life and you have to live life and that’s what really keeps me in touch with my religion because God doesn’t want me stuck in the house, I’ve got to get this word out!

YKIGS: Now tell me about your upcoming album “Tattoos and Roses.” When can we expect the album and what can we expect to hear on this album.

Lil’ Mo: Well you’re the first one that’s finding this out but we actually changed the title just for a couple of reasons. We’re going to keep “Tattoos and Roses” for the next album, but for this album we’re tossing up between two titles but I think I’m going to change the title to “My Pain vs. Your Entertainment.” Still with the “Tattoos and Roses” theme, but I think yea we’re going to stick with that one With my “Pain & Paper” mix cd that I did that came out on Koch. we pressed about 50,000 copies and sold every copy, they are still available for download I believe, and I don’t even have a copy which makes me feel some type of way because this is my own album! But with that being said, a lot of people that do have it felt it was a great album and wonder what happened. When you do an independent album and you don’t have a major team behind you, you’re just doing everything yourself and you can only expect to sell what you put out. So we just decided to take it back to the grassroots, I really have to be on the scene, I have to be able to reach my fans, they have to be able to feel me, but the best way you feel me is through my pain. So I’ve decided to go with “My Pain vs. Your Entertainment” and it’s almost like how much more hurt can I get, are you not entertained? So we’re just going to go ahead with that and “Tattoos and Roses” will just be the theme but not the title.

YKIGS: Do you have any plans at any point to release a gospel album?

Lil’ Mo: I believe I will, but what’s crazy is a lot of my gospel friends tell me not to do it. It’s not so much to say don’t do it in reverence to my relationship with God, but just the gospel music industry as a whole is basically to a point where even gospel artists don’t want to be gospel artists. The industry is so political and so cutthroat and so shady and so much going on, there’s so many people I know that I won’t name, but they don’t even want to be an artist anymore. I tell them “You’re scaring me now, you’re supposed to be coming out with an album, if you don’t want to do this, then why should I want to do this?” But I think I may do a contemporary album so I won’t totally abandon my hip hop audience, which would be my secular audience, just so I can keep it safe and so I don’t abandon one trying to move over to another. So basically I’ll do a contemporary album, not a traditional album, just good singing all over the place with some good gospel artists and some secular artists because there’s some secular artists that will tear the house down!

YKIGS: That’s all of the questions I had for you, is there anything else you’d like to add?

Lil’ Mo: Just to all of my fans, thank you for waiting so long, I promise you that it is worth the wait. I’m in the best place in my life, which will be a better way for people to actually be able to deal with me because I know I’m a bit much, I personally know that, I know a lot of people can’t handle me, you have to be able to handle me to understand me. So with that being said, just get ready, this last train is getting ready to pull out from Paris, hello!

Bobby V. Live Concert Footage at SOBs in NYC 1/20/11

On the promotional push for his upcoming fourth studio album "Fly on the Wall," Bobby V. came to SOBs in NYC as part of the KISS 98.7 FM "RnB Side" show. In front of a capacity crowd, Bobby took us through many of the biggest singles through his career, his new single "Words," two cover songs, as well as some of his biggest features. In between songs, he also took the time to talk about how even if fans don't like his singles, which tend to be on the commercial side to reach radio, he still makes real rnb and his albums are usually packed with this kind of music. Overall, the show was exactly what his fans were looking for and pretty much everyone left satisfied. Below is the set list in order, and I captured each of the songs he performed. The new album "Fly on the Wall" will be in stores March 22nd.

1) Anonymous
2) Phone Number
3) Tell Me
4) Bump N Grind (R. Kelly Cover)
5) Knockin Da Boots (H-Town Cover)
6) Pimpin All Over the World
7) Slow Down
8) Beep Beep
9) Words
10) Mrs. Officer





















New Joint: Raheem DeVaughn "Early Mornings" featuring Phil Ade (Produced by Boola)











Raheem DeVaughn "Early Mornings" featuring Phil Ade



Classic Vibe: Destiny's Child "Temptations" (1999)






Destiny's Child "Temptations"


Here is one of my favourite songs off Destiny's Child second album "Writing's on the Wall".



Friday, January 21, 2011

YouKnowIGotSoul Interview With El DeBarge



One of the biggest perks about running this site has to be the opportunity to interact so frequently with a wide range of artists. Most recently, I had the absolute honor and pleasure to talk to a legend and member of r&b's elite, El Debarge. What type of questions can you ask a musical icon whose career has spanned four decades? I was just glad to be able to pick his brain on his new project in the short time we had. In this interview, we discuss his return to music and the reception fans have given him, what he tried to accomplish with the new album, how he keeps his music sounding fresh, unexpected collaborations with hip hop artists, how long he'd like to keep recording music and much more.





YKIGS: First off just wanted to congratulate you on the new album. Since this is your first album in over 15 years, tell me what the reception has been from your fans? Did you find they were waiting for you again?

El DeBarge: Oh the reception has been awesome. The fans are out there, they’re screaming, they’re yelling, I feel like they are just as excited to see me as I am to see them and that feels so great. Everybody wants to feel wanted and I really feel wanted. My fans are awesome.

YKIGS: Realistically, what type of reception were you expecting to get from your fans when you were putting this new album out?

El DeBarge: Well I didn’t know what to expect actually because I had been gone for so long, I didn’t know what to expect. I know from one city to another, I had to make sure that I was ok in every region. So it’s like if they liked me in Chicago, I absorbed that and by the time I got to St. Louis I wanted to know it was the same there, then when I got to New York, I needed to know that the love was the same there, and so on and so forth. So every city was important to me and I think that I’ve touched just about every region out there that I could possibly touch right now. I’ve been doing this promotional push, promotions and concert tours since July of 2010.

YKIGS: So as I mentioned it’s been so long between albums, did you always have intentions of continuing your music career?

El DeBarge: Yea I did, I always had intentions of continuing.

YKIGS: When you set out to create this album, “Second Chance,” what was your overall goal to accomplish with this album?

El DeBarge: My overall goal was to reach the mainstream market because I didn’t just want one genre of people, I wanted my complete audience from where I left off at which was early adult contemporary, which was urban, which was soul, which was pop. So my main goal was to do the type of album that would please everybody, please all of my fans.

YKIGS: You were nominated for two Grammy Awards, how does that make you feel?
El DeBarge: It was very emotional for me when I got the Grammy nominations and I cried, I was just very overwhelmed. It was amazing.

YKIGS: I want to talk to you about the single you have out now which is “Lay With You” with Faith Evans. What’s it been like working with her on the song? I know you guys have been performing it a lot together, so tell me about that.

El DeBarge: You know it’s been great working with Faith, she’s such a great singer and getting back on stage and doing it with someone who can really sing I think is a great compliment to the song. So I don’t get to sing everywhere with her, sometimes I have to do the song by myself, but there’s times when our schedules actually meet up and our schedules coincide.

YKIGS: Yea I love that song, it was definitely one of my favorite songs from last year and I’m glad you guys came together and did that.

El DeBarge: Thank you!

YKIGS: I had a chance to talk to Mike City who did some work on this album, he actually produced that song as well, and he was talking about how he looks up to you as a legend and royalty in r&b. What was it like working with him?

El DeBarge: Oh Mike’s a pro, he gets in there and he does his thing. He knows how to dub you in with vocals, he knows how to do music writing, he’s a real producer!

YKIGS: Do you have a favorite song from this album if you had to pick one?

El DeBarge: My favorite song…they change every week! This week is “Format” with 50!

YKIGS: *Laughs* Ok, why would you choose that one?

El DeBarge: Well I’m feeling that one this week. I don’t know, it’s like I’m real moody with music that’s why I’ve got a lot of different things on my album. I think it represents all of the different areas of emotion that I dabble into.

YKIGS: I was a little surprised when I saw that you had collaborations with Fabolous and 50 Cent, but I was happy with the way they came out, I love the way they sound.

El DeBarge: Yea I think a lot of my fans were probably surprised at first, and I think they were even more gratefully surprised when they found out that they could be satisfied with the collabs. I’ll never ever, ever do anything that’s somebody else’s idea just to sell a record. I have to keep my convictions for music always at the forefront of every musical decision that I make. So with 50 being on the album, with Fabolous being on the album, as well as Faith, it was definitely something that I thought would work.

YKIGS: I was curious if you reached out to those artists, how did those collaborations come up?

El DeBarge: 50 and I have been on the same label and I said “Hey we need to try something, I’m a fan of yours, you’re a fan of mine, so let’s see if we can do something together.” Fabolous reached out to me and said he had a song that he wanted me to do on his album. I did that, so you’ll hear it whenever his album comes out, I don’t know if it’s out or not, it’s supposed to be out by now. So I thought that worked so good, and told him I had something I’d like him to do on my album, so that’s how that happened.

YKIGS: A personal favorite of mine is the song “Joyful.” Can you give me some background on that song?

El DeBarge: I love “Joyful”! “Joyful” describes how I feel overall about my life, about what God is doing in my life and about my album, my career. I’m so joyful about it all and that’s just one of my favorites as well.

YKIGS: As someone who is considered as an r&b legend, r&b royalty, and a household name, who are you listening to? What artists do you listen to in your free time?

El DeBarge: I sit down and I try to listen to…I intentionally try to listen to what’s going on out there, so I’m on the radio a lot and I’m listening to what’s happening out there so I can see if there’s anything that I can do to shape or help to shape any part of this musical atmosphere that I’m a part of that needs to be shaped. So I’m listening to Drake, I’m listening to Nicki Minaj, I’m listening to Beyonce, I’m listening to Taylor Swift, I’m listening to Justin Bieber, I’m listening to everybody. I’m paying attention to it all.

YKIGS: Since it’s been so long between albums and you mentioned you wanted to reach the mainstream and get back in touch with your fans, how did you get your sound up to date? How did you find out how to get back in touch with those fans since it’s been so long?

El DeBarge: Well you know what at the end of the day I just follow my heart because one thing I learned a long time ago is what comes from the heart, reaches the heart. When DeBarge first started off in the industry we were against all odds in the first place. Really nobody at the record company, nobody at Motown, believed we would do anything, but Berry Gordy did. Being the genius that he has always been and having a finished ear, which is what we call it in the industry, he has a finished ear where he can hear ahead. You know how there’s people who can see ahead? Well he can hear ahead. *Laughs* He understands things other people don’t understand and because of that, in all due respect to what’s going on in DeBarge’s career now, he gave us a chance to be ourselves. Rick James, Prince, Michael Jackson, all of that was going on when DeBarge was first coming out. We certainly were a sound that had to be embraced and handled carefully and with care. So because what comes from the heart reaches the heart, that was proven to us back then or else we would not be where we are today. So that’s just the approach I took with this album, I said I’m just going to come from my heart.

YKIGS: Final question, in terms of recording music, how long do you see yourself recording music into the future or how long would you like to?

El DeBarge: I’d like to record music forever. Even when I die and go to heaven I want to record music up there. *Laughs*


Classic Vibe: Toni Braxton "I Don't Want To"






Toni Braxton "I Don't Want To"


Here is the R.Kelly written ballad from Toni's classic "Secrets" album.